Saturday, July 4, 2009

MUSLIMAH SWIMSUIT: HOW TO COVER YOUR HAIR?

With regards to the swimsuit for Muslim women, it does not only refer to the swimming attire that is loose and cover the body properly, but more than that, the main concern that differentiates it with other modesty swimsuits is about covering the hair, which is also part of Muslim women’s aurat.

The question is how to cover the hair with Muslimah swimsuits?

Take a look at these pictures...


Usually, the sellers of this product will provide you the swimsuit together with cap and tudung. There are three ways where you can cover your hair while wearing Muslimah swimsuit:

1) Wear the cap only – Suitable to be styled when you swim among women only and in closed areas.

2) Wear the cap with the tudung inside the suit – Suitable to be styled when you swim.

3) Wear the cap with the tudung outside the suit – Suitable to be styled when you want to have fun with the water besides the pool, and do not intend to swim.

Which one of the styles you prefer? It depends on which one you feel comfortable with as well as the environment that you are in… The decision is in your hands…

Wednesday, April 29, 2009

IS IT SAME BETWEEN HANDSOCK AND TARBIYAH?

This is an interesting discussion on handsock that I wanna share with u…
For the original source written in Malay, you can visit this website: http://imkhaulah.blogspot.com/2008/05/samakah-handsock-tarbiyah.html



Did you ever hear this phrase, “handsock is not everything, but everything is meaningless without handsock”? Sounds funny right? For the first time you hear it, you might laugh. Try to repeat the phrase…“handsock is not everything, but everything is meaningless without handsock”. Still not clear to understand the phrase? Let’s try to ponder it for the third time...“handsock is not everything, but everything is meaningless without handsock”. Now let’s discuss what actually meant by this phrase…

For women those are Muslimah, look at your wrist… Alhamdulillah for those wearing handsock... But for those who don’t wear it, don’t worry, you will not be punished with sins just because you don’t wear handsock. There is nothing written in the religious books mentioning that those don’t wearing handsock will be given sins from the God. For those who don’t wear handsock, do you feel from anxiety now?

Now close your eyes… try to imagine the situation whereby you have to use public transports such bus, LRT, or Komuter… You are surrounded by many people… In front of you, at your back, your left side and your right side… there are so many people using the same public transport that you use… everyone want to go to their destiny that you do not know at all…

In that situation, those faster might get the seat. But it is unfortunate for you if you have to stand. Now you don’t have anything to hold so that your condition will be stable. Try to look above. Oh, there is something that you can hang on there! You immediately get it and hang on your hand there… But will be happened if you don’t wear handsock at that time? At the beginning, your arm might be not exposed. But what would you do if such incident happens to you?

Here you might understand now what actually meant by the phrase “handsock is not everything, but everything is meaningless without handsock”… If you still blur and not clear… now try to change this phrase with this one, “tarbiyah is not everything, but everything is meaningless without tarbiyah”… Do you still blur??

Tuesday, April 21, 2009

WHY SHE WON'T WEAR HIJAB?!

"I'm so tired."

"Tired of what?"

"Of all these people judging me."

"Who judged you?"

"Like that woman, every time I sit with her, she tells me to wear hijab."

"Maybe she was just giving you advice."

"I don't need her advice. I know my religion. Can`t she mind her own business?"

"Maybe you misunderstood. She was just being nice."

"Keeping out of my business, that would be nice..."

"But it's her duty to encourage you do to good."

"Trust me. That was no encouragement. And what do you mean `good`?"

"Well, wearing hijab, that would be a good thing to do."

"Says who?"

"It's in the Qur'an, isn't it?"

"Yes. She did quote me something."

"She said Surah Nur, and other places of the Qur'an."

"Yes, but it's not a big sin anyway. Helping people and praying is more important."

"True. But big things start with small things."

"That's a good point, but what you wear is not important. What's important is to have a good healthy heart."

"What you wear is not important?"

"That's what I said."

"Then why do you spend an hour every morning fixing up?"

"What do you mean?"

"You spend money on cosmetics, not to mention all the time you spend on fixing your hair and low-carb dieting."

"So?"

"So, your appearance is important."

"No. I said wearing hijab is not an important thing in religion."

"If it's not an important thing in religion, why is it mentioned in the Holy Qur'an?"

"You know I can't follow all that's in Qur'an."

"You mean God tells you something to do, you disobey and then it's OK?"

"Yes. God is forgiving."

"God is forgiving to those who repent and do not repeat their mistakes."

"Says who?"

"Says the same book that tells you to cover."

"But I don't like hijab, it limits my freedom."

"But the lotions, lipsticks, mascara and other cosmetics set you free?! What`s your definition of freedom anyway?"

"Freedom is in doing whatever you like to do."

"No. Freedom is in doing the right thing, not in doing whatever we wish to do."

"Look! I've seen so many people who don't wear hijab and are nice people, and so many who wear hijab and are bad people."

"So what? There are people who are nice to you but are alcoholic. Should we all be alcoholics? You made a stupid point."

"I don't want to be an extremist or a fanatic. I'm OK the way I am without hijab."

"Then you are a secular fanatic. An extremist in disobeying God."

"You don't get it, if I wear hijab, who would marry me?!"

"So all these people with hijab never get married?!"

"Okay! What if I get married and my husband doesn't like it? And wants me to remove it?"

"What if your husband wants you to go out with him on a bank robbery?!"

"That's irrelevant, bank robbery is a crime."

"Disobeying your Creator is not a crime?"

"But then who would hire me?"

"A company that respects people for who they are."

"Not after 9-11"

"Yes. After 9-11. Don't you know about Hanan who just got into med school? And the other one, what was her name, the girl who always wore a white hijab…ummm…"

"Yasmeen?"

"Yes. Yasmeen. She just finished her MBA and is now interning for GE."

"Why do you reduce religion to a piece of cloth anyway?"

"Why do you reduce womanhood to high heals and lipstick colors?"

"You didn't answer my question."

"In fact, I did. Hijab is not just a piece of cloth. It is obeying God in a difficult environment. It is courage, faith in action, and true womanhood. But your short sleeves, tight pants…"

"That's called `fashion`, you live in a cave or something? First of all, hijab was founded by men who wanted to control women."

"Really? I did not know men could control women by hijab."

"Yes. That's what it is."

"What about the women who fight their husbands to wear hijab? And women in France who are forced to remove their hijab by men? What do you say about that?"

"Well, that's different."

"What difference? The woman who asked you to wear hijab…she was a woman, right?"

"Right, but…"

"But fashions that are designed and promoted by male-dominated corporations, set you free? Men have no control on exposing women and using them as a commodity?! Give me a break!"

"Wait, let me finish, I was saying…"

"Saying what? You think that men control women by hijab?"

"Yes."

"Specifically how?"

"By telling women how and what to wear, dummy!"

"Doesn't TV, magazines and movies tell you what to wear, and how to be `attractive'?"

"Of course, it's fashion."

"Isn't that control? Pressuring you to wear what they want you to wear?"

[Silence]

"Not just controlling you, but also controlling the market."

"What do you mean?"

"I mean, you are told to look skinny and anorexic like that woman on the cover of the magazine, by men who design those magazines and sell those products."

"I don't get it. What does hijab have to do with products?"

"It has everything to do with that. Don't you see? Hijab is a threat to consumerism, women who spend billions of dollars to look skinny and live by standards of fashion designed by men…and then here is Islam, saying trash all that nonsense and focus on your soul, not on your looks, and do not worry what men think of your looks."

"Like I don't have to buy hijab? Isn't hijab a product?"

"Yes, it is. It is a product that sets you free from male-dominated consumerism."

"Stop lecturing me! I WILL NOT WEAR HIJAB! It is awkward, outdated, and totally not suitable for this society...Moreover, I am only 20 and too young to wear hijab!"

"Fine. Say that to your Lord, when you face Him on Judgment Day."

"Fine."

"Fine."

[Silence]

[Silence]

"Shut up and I don't want to hear more about hijab!"

[Silence]

(She stared at the mirror, tired of arguing with herself all this time. Successful enough, she managed to shut the voices in her head, with her own opinions triumphant in victory on the matter, and a final modern decision accepted by the society - but rejected by the Faith)

"Yes!" - to curls on the hair - "No!" - to hijab!
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To Muslim women who won’t wear hijab… why you don’t want to obey and follow what have been mentioned in the Qur’an? Is it too difficult to wear hijab? Don’t give any excuse of the difficulties and challenges that you will overcome for wearing it since you will never know what has been determined by God for you in the future. And please do muhasabah yourselves… do you think you are brave enough to face the God on the Day of Judgment?? Answer it by yourselves…

Friday, April 17, 2009

WUDHU’ SOCKS – HELP YOU TO PERFORM ABLUTION EASIER

=> Do you find it is difficult for you to pull out and take off your sock each time you want to wash your feet?

=> Are you looking for a convenient sock whereby you can easily just pull up whenever it is the time to perform ablution (wudhu’) for prayer?

Do you think there is no such kind of sock? You are wrong! Take a look at these…


Now, with introduction of the latest invention for socks, wudhu’ socks help you to perform ablution easily without even have to take off your socks. All you need to do is simply lift up the front portion of the wudhu’ sock to the middle of the calf without even remove it away. Once you are done with the ablution, simply juts roll down the sock to cover your toes and it’s done! It is as simple as that! (See the picture below to clearly understand how it works)



For those interested in online buying, you can visit these websites:

http://www.wudusocks.com/
http://www.mywudusocks.com/
http://indobatik.indonetwork.net/1192529/kaos-kaki-wudhu.htm
http://produksi-anamuslimah.blogspot.com/2008/06/wudhuk-socks-new-product.html
http://koleksinasha.blogspot.com/2008/03/stokin-wuduk.html

Go and get this sock today for your better and easier life! With wudhu’ sock, now you don’t have to remove your socks anymore whenever you want to perform ablution.

Monday, April 13, 2009

ADVANTAGES OF MUSLIMAH SWIMSUITS

>> conform to Islamic teaching and practices <<

>> enables you to dress in Muslim way <<

>>able to maximize a modest person’s ability to expand her lifestyle<<

>>protect very sensitive skin from harmful exposure to strong sunlight<<

>> quite shape hiding <<

>> looks humble <<

>> despite their bulky appearance, they are quite lightweight <<

>> suitable for professional swimmers as well <<

>>cover body&fulfill public swimming pool's requirement simultaneously<<

>> the price range is lower than the price of a swimwear in the market and you will get even more items - a swim cap is included in the price <<

Tuesday, April 7, 2009

TO VEIL OR NOT TO VEIL?

To answer that question, we should look at the differences between veiling and unveiling… what are the advantages of veiling? And what are the disadvantages of unveiling? Does it have any relation with social problems such as rape, sexual molestation and disrespect of woman?


The Advantages of Veiling


1. It is a protection for Muslim woman against the behaviour of the wicked;

2. It is an identify of the Muslim that distinguishes her;

3. It gives her an honoured position in the society;

4. It acts as a barrier between men & women to keep them away from sins;

5. It is a means for observing chastity of woman;

6. It awakens the fear of Allah in the heart of man and woman and saves them from falling in the abyss of evil;

7. It teaches man to respect the veiled woman, provide her protection from the curious persons and ensure the uplift of the high morals and social values in the society.


The Disadvantages of Unveiling


1. It is a violation of the Qur’aan and Hadith;

2. It shows woman’s weakness in belief;

3. It is a cause of temptation for men and women;

4. It strips off her modesty that is an integral part of Faith as the Prophet [Sallallaahu Alayhi Wasallam] said, ‘Modesty is part of Faith.’ (al-Bukhari)

5. It subjects her to sexual harassment;

6. It hurts her dignity and feelings and it stains her chastity;

7. It prompts woman to take part in commercial advertisements and films as a showpiece and a source of enjoyment for the viewers.

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From the above list of advantages of veiling as well as disadvantages of unveiling, you can make your own judgment whether veiling or unveiling has impacts and implications for society or not.

In my opinion, women’s dressing more or less also contributes to social problems that happen nowadays. By covering aurat properly, InsyaAllah women will be prevented from such problems.

Hopefully now you are able to make a good decision for what you are supposed to do… To veil or not to veil?? Answer it by yourselves…

SPECIAL POEM FOR THOSE WEARING HIJAB


This poem really motivates and inspires Muslim women to wear hijab. It explores the positive aspects of wearing hijab. So, keep on wearing the hijab!

Monday, April 6, 2009

DON’T BE SUBJUGATED BY “MAN”-KIND!

"Object of Despair" (by Fahim Firifiray - Abu Omar)

Emma is a lawyer, and Aisha is too
Colleagues going into court at circa half past two
Its 1 o'clock right now, they grab a bite before the trial
They chat about this and that, conversing with a smile

Aisha's in full hijab with a loose all over suit
Emma's in her business wear with accessories to boot
Emma's really quite bemused at Aisha's godly ways
She looks Aisha in the eyes and very firmly says:

"You're a smart girl Aisha, why do you wear that across your hair?
Subjugated by 'man'-kind, an object of despair
Take it off my sister, let your banner be unfurled
Don't blindly follow all around, DECLARE YOUR FREEDOM TO THE WORLD!"

Aisha is amazed, but not the least bit shy
She bravely puts her milk shake down and gives Emma the reply
"My dear sister Emma, why do you dress the way you do?
The skirt you're wearing round your waist, is it really you?"

"Now that we've sat down, I see you tug it across your thighs
Do you feel ashamed, aware of prying eyes?
I see the way you're sitting, both legs joined at the knees
Who forces you to sit like that? Do you feel at ease?"

"I'll tell you who obliges you to dress the way you do
Gucci, Klein and St. Laurent all have designs on you!
In the main, it's men my friend who dictate the whims of fashion
Generating all the garb to incite the basest passion"

"'Sex Sells' - there is no doubt, but who buys with such great haste
The answer is the likes of you because they want to be embraced
They want to be accepted on a level playing field
Sure, with brain and intellect, but with body parts revealed"

"Why do you douse yourself with creams, to make your skin so milky?
Why do rip off all your hair to keep your body silky?
A simple shower's all you need to stay respectable and clean
The time and money that you spend is really quite obscene"

"Why do you wake up at dawn to apply a firm foundation,
Topped with make up and the like in one chaotic combination?
And if you should have to leave the house devoid of this routine
Why do you feel so insecure that you should not be seen?"

"Be free my sister Emma, escape from your deep mire
Don hijab today my friend, and all Islam's attire
Avoid all those sickly stares, or whistles from afar
Walk down the street with dignity, take pride in who you are"

"Strength lies in anonymity, be a shadow in the crowd
Until you speak and interact when your voice will carry loud
You're a smart girl Emma, wear this across your hair
Don't be subjugated by "man"-kind, an object of despair"

"To use your very words my friend, Let your banner be unfurled
Don't blindly follow all around - DECLARE YOUR FREEDOM TO THE WORLD!

Friday, March 27, 2009

HANDSOCK – MORE THAN JUST COVERING YOUR HAND!


As Muslim women, we should know well which parts of our body are aurat and need to be covered. But is that only the matter of covering it? As what we’ve learned, there are certain criteria to be followed in covering aurat properly. It is not only covering your body so that your skins are not exposed, but it is more than that. The dress or clothes that you wear should not be tight as well whereby it can reveal the figure of your body.

The same principle goes with your arm, which is also included in the parts that you should cover. With regards to this, we can see many people nowadays wearing handsock. Basically, there are two different types of handsock due its length – one is up to the elbow, and the other one is up to the shoulder. By wearing handsock, aurat of the arm is not been exposed to others especially non-mahram as well as non-Muslims, which is something good I could say.

But what is actually the need for wearing handsock? Is it used just to cover the skin of arm from been exposed? Or is it something more than that?



Wearing handsock, in my opinion, should be considered as a supplement and a complement for the proper dressing, and not to be used just to cover the skin of our arm from been exposed. It means wearing handsock with short sleeve T-shirt to cover the arm is not yet considered as covering the aurat. That is not the way of covering aurat properly as taught by Syarak.

The same problem goes to those wearing handsock with attractive patterns. They might easily want to show their nice and attractive handsock to others, which is wrong. Wearing handsock with attractive patterns with that intention is against Islamic teachings of covering aurat properly for Muslim women.


However, if a woman wears long sleeve dresses such as Baju Kurung or Jubah, and also wears handsock raises up her hands to get something located in the high place, making her hands with the handsock appear to others, then in such a case, it is forgiven by Syarak.

In short, just to remind all of you, handsock should be worn with the proper dressing, i.e. dress with long sleeve, and not be worn with short sleeve T-shirt because whether they realize it or not, their handsock is tight and can show exactly the shape of their arm just like those wearing short skirt with the long sock… what for?

To all Muslim women, please don’t forget this hadith by Prophet Muhammad (PBUH): “That among the signs of the Day of Judgment is that there will be women who will be dressed but will be naked, so curse them because for they are truly cursed! And they will never ever smell the fragrance of Paradise”.

This hadith also related with this problem of wearing handcosk with short sleeve T-shirts because it can be classified as (part of the) dress that show the shape of your arm… so, let’s muhasabah ourselves... do we want to place ourselves in Hell for not covering aurat properly? Nauzubillaahi min dzaalik…

Friday, March 20, 2009

LONG - SLEEVE T - SHIRTS FOR MUSLIM WOMEN

Islam encourages men as well as women to participate in sports. Muslim women can involve in sports as long as they don the proper attire as taught by Islam. Sports attire for Muslim women should be long, loose, and not transparent, that is the same with th general principles on Muslim attire. It must cover their aurah properly, meaning that short-sleeve T-shirt, the attire which is designed for men should not be worn by Muslim women as it shows their arms. Wearing handsocks still show the shape of the arm.

So what kind of T-shirts can be worn by Muslim women when they want to participate in sports? And why does Islam determine such rules on the sport attire for Muslim women?

It is solely to preserve their dignity and honor, safeguard them against immoralities and indecency and preserve their chastity while preserving their right in sports. Here are some examples of the T-shirts that can be worn by Muslim women in sports …



The Muslimah’s long sleeve shirts are designed for those who wish to dress modestly for camping and casual activities. They come with above-knee body length, and most of them are made from high quality 100% fully combed cotton material. In short, the shirts can cover Muslimah’s aurat in a modest yet stylishly contemporary manner.


Since the T-shirts are designed in line with Shari’ah, many religious schools also use this kind of T-shirts for their co-curriculum activities including sports day. In other words, no matter who they are, whether they are school students, college or university students, workers, housewives, or even pregnant women, Muslim women can have this kind of T-shirts worn for their casual activities especially when practicing sports.


But where can they get this Muslimah’s T-shirts? It is quite difficult to find this kind of T-shirts in the market nowadays. Usually it only can be found at booths that sell Islamic clothes and attires. However, if you are interested to buy these T-shirts online, you can go to these websites for further information:


http://nurcahaya.wordpress.com/

http://islamtshirt.blogspot.com/

http://nisastyle.bizupnet.com/tshirtmuslimah.htm

kedainorazif.blogspot.com/2008_03_01_archive.html

http://www.cetakbaju2u.com/?lang=my&id=1&ACT=5&content=3&mnu=1&pwd=yes

http://tshirtlabuhmuslimah.blogspot.com/2008/12/katalog-t-shirt-labuh-muslimah-edisi.html

So now what are you waiting for? Sports attire is available for Muslim women who want to involve in sports. You should have this kind of T-shirts and enjoy playing any kind of game you like!

Sunday, March 8, 2009

COMPARISON BETWEEN HIJAB AND NIQAB

As posted before, niqab is not compulsory to be worn by Muslim women. However, it is better and perfectly fine for those who wish to do so.

These are some comparison between hijab and niqab:

(1) Hijab is a screen of privacy → Niqab is a better screen

(2) Hijab helps develop taqwa → Niqab helps develop more taqwa

(3) Hijab is a jihad that purifies the soul → Niqab is a greater jihad

(4) Hijab is a protection for sisters → Niqab is a better protection

(5) Hijab is an assertion of Islamic identity → Niqab is a stronger assertion

(6) Hijab is fard → Niqab is mustahabb

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So, which one do you prefer? Hijab or Niqab? Just to remind all of you, wearing niqab is not obligatory, but it is the specific form of extra-modest dress set by the Shari'ah for Muslim women. As such, it is sunnah as well as mustahabb.

With regards to this issue, I think if a woman chooses to wear Niqab, make sure she really understands the reason/s for wearing it. Wearing the Niqab should be consistent, meaning that she must wear it each time she goes outside her home as well as in the presence of her non-mahram.

And Allah Knows The Best...

Saturday, March 7, 2009

IS NIQAB (FACE VEIL) COMPULSORY FOR MUSLIM WOMEN?

Note: This might be too long to read, but it is very helpful for those who want deep understanding and explanation regarding on this issue of niqab, whether it is compulsory or not to be worn by Muslim women…





The Qur'an says (Al-Qur'an 4:59):
"O you who believe! Obey Allah and obey the Messenger and those charged with authority among you. If you differ in anything among yourselves, refer it to Allah and His Messenger if you do believe in Allah and the Last Day: that is best and most suitable for final determination."

As mentioned in the verse quoted above, when people in authority, the rulers, leaders, imams and scholars differ amongst themselves, our Creator instructs us to look into the Qur'an and the authentic Ahadith for guidance. The legitimacy, relevance and accuracy of the reasons and evidence provided by these people should be evaluated in the light of the Qur'an and the Sunnah. However, it should be borne in mind that infallibility belongs to Allah alone and a scholar, being a human, can make an error of judgment.

There is no clear-cut authentic hadith to the effect of making the face veil obligatory. Those scholars, who insist that covering the face is obligatory for Muslim women, interpret 'al-idnaa' in the verse of the jilbaab (Al-Qur'an: 33:59) to mean, "covering the face". This interpretation is erroneous because the basic meaning of the word in Arabic is "to come close", as the well-known scholar, ar-Raaghib al-Asbahaanee mentions in his authoritative dictionary 'al-Mufradaat'. Some people claim that jilbaab is "a garment which covers the face". This too is a misinterpretation as it is contrary to the interpretation of the leading scholars of past and present as well, who define jilbaab as a garment which women drape over their head scarves (khimaar).

Some people claim that the khimaar (headscarf) in Al-Qur'an 24:31 covers the head and the face, whereas linguistically the word only means a head covering. The Prophet (pbuh) is reported to have said "Allah does not accept the prayer of a woman who has reached puberty unless she wears a khimaar". (Sunan Abu Dawood, vol. 1, hadith No. 641)

However, no scholar insists on covering the face in Salaah for women based on the hadith quoted above, which further substantiates that khimaar does not mean covering the face. Shaykh Naasiruddeen al-Albaanee, one of the foremost scholars of recent times has clarified in detail, the errors made by these scholars who insist on the obligatory nature of the face veil in his books ar-Radd al-Mufhim & Jilbaab al-Mar'ah al-Muslimah (3rd edition, 1996, al-Maktabah al-Islaamiyyah). Likewise, other scholars like Ibn Muflih al-Hambalee, an-Nawawee, al-Qaadee 'Iyaad are too of the opinion that covering the face is not obligatory.

As stated earlier, that there is not a single authentic hadith that makes covering the face obligatory. On the other hand, we find several ahadith which prove that covering the face is not compulsory in Islam. For instance, once while the prophet was admonishing and preaching to a group of women after having admonished the men on the Id day, "...a woman having a dark spot on her cheek stood up..." seeking clarification on the subject the prophet was discussing. (Sahih Muslim, Vol. 2, Hadith No. 1926)

It is understood from the above-mentioned hadith that the woman having interaction with the prophet was not covering her face nor did the prophet command her to do so. It is incumbent upon every Muslim to enjoin right and forbid wrong, as Allah instructed us in the Glorious Qur'an. Thus we cannot expect the prophet, on whom the Qur'an was revealed, to let the woman keep her face uncovered after having known the obligation of covering the face. Narrated Ata bin Abi Rabah (R.A.).

Ibn 'Abbas said to me, "Shall I show you a woman of the people of Paradise?" I said, "Yes." He said, "This black lady came to the Prophet and said..."(Sahih Bukhari, Vol. 7, Hadith No. 555 - Dar Al Arabia- Beirut- Lebanon & Sahih Muslim Hadith No. 6571-Darusslam- Arabic)

The hadith quoted above proves that the 'woman of the people of the paradise' was not covering her face when she had visited the prophet nor was she covering it when Ibn 'Abbas was discussing about her later. Some may argue by saying she could be recognized owing to the dark complexion of her hand and not due to the exposure of her face. However, this argument would carry no weight since she was not the only black woman at the time of the prophet. Moreover, to identify a person, the aspect of exposure of the face is of immense significance.

The Prophet (pbuh) is reported to have said, "...The Muhrima (a woman in the state of Ihram) should not cover her face, or wear gloves." (Sahih Bukhari, Vol. 3, Hadith No. 1838)

With regards to the hadith quoted above, some people say that the commandment of the prophet (pbuh) not to cover the face is specifically for the women in the state of Ihram, thus it cannot be used as an evidence because in Ihram certain rules and regulations change. However, the point to be noted here is that the things that are Mustahab (recommended) can be made Haraam (forbidden), like the cutting of nails, even the things that are Mubah (permissible) or Mustahab (recommended) can be made Fard (obligatory), e.g. wearing two pieces of white unsewn cloth is made Fard for a man, while normally it is Mubah (permissible). But anything that is Haraam in the normal course of life can never be made Fard. Hence, if exposing the face is Haraam for women, then how can it be made Fard in Ihraam?

During the day of Nahr (10th Dhul-Hijja), when Al-Fadl bin 'Abbas was riding behind the prophet on his she -camel, "...a beautiful woman from the tribe of Khath'am came, asking the verdict of Allah's Apostle. Al-Fadl started looking at her as her beauty attracted him. The Prophet looked behind while Al-Fadl was looking at her; so the Prophet held out his hand backwards and caught the chin of Al-Fadl and turned his face (to the other side) in order that he should not gaze at her..." (Sahih Bukhari, Vol. 8, Hadith No. 6228)

In the above-mentioned hadith we find Al-Fadl looking at the lady because her beauty attracted him. Here too, it is understood that the face of the lady was exposed as the hadith says that the woman was beautiful. Obviously, it is the face that plays the most significant role in making a person being perceived as ugly or beautiful. In spite of this, the prophet didn't instruct the lady to cover her face but instead turned the face of Al-Fadl in order to prevent him from staring at her, further substantiating the verse of the Qur'an from Surah An-Noor, 24:30, which says:"Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty: that will make for greater purity for them: and Allah is well acquainted with all that they do."

The Qur'an further says in the next verse:
And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; that they should not display their beauty and ornaments except what (must ordinarily) appear thereof... (Al-Qur'an 24:31)

When Ibne Abbaas (RA), the leading commentator of the Qur'an was asked about the verse mentioned above as to what it meant, he replied, "it refers to the face and hands". (Collected by Ibn Abee Shaybah in al-Musannaf, Vol. 3, p. 540 & 541, hadith no. 16997 & 17012 and al-Bayhaqi in Sunan al- Kubraa. Al-Albaanee ruled in Jilbaab al-Mar'ah al-Muslimah, pp 59-60, that the isnaad of this statement is saheeh.)

Some scholars argue that all the ahadith, which speak of women's faces being seen, are of the time earlier than the revelation of the verses of Al-Qur'an 33:59 & 24:31, which make covering the face compulsory. Firstly, as discussed earlier, these Qur'anic verses do not make covering the face compulsory for women. Secondly, to prove that these verses make the covering of women's face compulsory, they have to quote an authentic hadith for it, which they don't. Thirdly most of the ahadith quoted above, are of the time after these Qur'anic verses were revealed.

Thus, it can be concluded that covering the face is not obligatory for women. However, covering the face was obligatory for the Ummul Mu'mineen, the wives of the Prophet (pbuh) as was Tahajjud obligatory for the Prophet (pbuh). Although Muslims are exempted from its obligation, it is still a highly recommended Sunnah for the Muslims. The scholars unanimously agree that it is preferable for Muslim women to cover their faces. Thus it is not compulsory for Muslim Women to cover their faces but those women who cover their faces may continue to do so if they wish.

And Allah knows the best.

Friday, March 6, 2009

REASONS WHY YOU WEAR HIJAB


Reasons for wearing the hijab:
[compilation from various muslimahs]

1. Because the Qur'an and Sunnah states so. Allah ordered us to wear the hijab and cover up to protect ourselves so we get the proper respect we deserve and not be treated like we are a piece of meat.
2. You can dye your hair any colour you want and no one can say anything at all, because its all hidden, you can have blue hair, or purple, or bright red, or neon pink or green, long or permed or short, or rainbow colors with sparkles and glitter, jewellery in your ears, and all over.... :D
3. Children think you are a ninja, and you can say you are 'niqabi ninja' They will think of you as this heroine and will admire you.
4. People think it is your costume. Or at least some will think of it as a costume you are wearing for your party, or work, or that you were forced to wear it. LOL and you have to explain to them no it is your CHOICE to wear it though in the Qur'an it says it will Protect you.
5. People think you might be bald, but then you have to tell them no, I have hair...no I don't have cancer. You can show to the little kids, see I have hair....
6. You get a lot of respect in the hijab from all your brothers and sisters and other people, than you did before your hijabi days.
7. You can wear whatever you like under the abayah, light and cool dresses are good.
8. Despite that this world has hot weather, HELL IS HOTTER, so you rather suffer a bit on this world than the Hereafter.
9. Have you noticed that some people that are really maybe ignorant about Islam and women and Muslims that they speak extra loudly and clearly to you wherever you go. "Wwwoould yooooou llike ttthat in beeeeeels/noooottes or ch change ma 'am?""I speak english clearly, change please."
10. No bad hair days to worry about!.
11. People know that you're a Muslim. You can distinguish yourself in this society.
12. Your hair isn't exposed all kinds of crappy pollution and UV rays.
13. Your hijabs smell nice cause they start smelling like your shampoo.
14. Only the people you want to see your awrah, will see it...not every wierdo walking on the street.
15. your skin is protected under the niqab.
16. No bugs in your hair (no having to worry about catching nits from other people!).
17. you won't age prematuredly, since you don't wear makeup.
18. you won't have to waste time in the morning deciding on the perfect outfit in the morning, if you wear jilbab.
19. because you know your beautiful and you can keep all that beauty to yourself.
20. No one dares to mess with a hijabi sis while taking a walk. :D
21. you will feel a closeness to every muhajabah you see on the road and to every muslim you ever encounter.
22. The inner feeling of peace you get when you wear it.
23. little girls or little boys look up to you, and want to be like you.
24. When guys see you, they respect you, they cross the street so they dont pass by you and offend you.
25. They see muslims as trustworthy people and give you discounts at stores, and restaurants, and esp if you are in hijab they give you like 5 or 10 dollars/pounds off what you buy.
26. because most pious brothers WON'T EVEN CONSIDER marriage with a non-hijabi (caution: your intention for wearing hijab should still be to observe the command of Allah).
27. If you ever get in trouble.. you can pretend like you dont know any English and either flip out on them in Arabic/Urdu/any other language or run away crying as if they offended you.
28. Because theres more freedom in deciding who gets to see you rather than having anyone look at you and your beauty.
29. People treat you for your mind not your body. In the sense that you succeed in things (ie. job because of your performance and intelligence and not because how short your mini skirt is.
30. Because Muslims are required to practice Islam in every aspect of ur life including everyone, not just nuns like in Christainity or only on saturday. for Jews, or only Sunday for Catholics all of whom cover on those days, I am told as a respect to God. Muslimahs should respect God at all times.
31. Beauty fades eventually, and with hijab people learn to love your inner beauty without the hindereness of your outer beauty.
32. Your husband and loved ones learn to appreciate your beauty both outside and in more, and these tend to be the most important people in your life of which you grace those special people with your gifts from Allah.
33. You are a shining example how women in Islam are sooooo highly respected and valued and powerful in islam. For example you are no mans torphy to adorn his hand, you are a companion, mother and friend of the insha'Allah religous brother who appreciates you and your beauty. There are other things where this applies as well.
34. Thourghout history those that where scandalessly dressed and showing off there beauty, etc. tended to be the whores and prostitutes of the street, dancing girls etc., and those that were coverd tended to be the pious, respected women of history and many times they were the more powerfull then the other. (Sorry if I offeneded anyone with this one just a thought that has been in my head. I am not saying that these days that the people that don't dress correctly do things that I mentioned, I am just saying in history in the past this tened to be the case).
35. Hijab is a source of confidence. Non-Muslims easily recognize you to be different and do not stare when you stand up for you Islamic rights and beliefs which are often considered strange in the western society.
36. It keeps you warm in the winter. You dont have to worry about trying to keep a hat on to stop your ears from freezing up! Plus the head is medically known for the place where a HIGH level of heat is released from the body!
37. Long Lasting. Hijab protects your hair for longer and keeps it shiny, healthy and in good condition.


Source: http://www.geocities.com/mutmainaa/quiz/reasons_for_hijab.html

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So, why do you wear hijab? I think the most acceptable answer should be no.1…

Whenever it is something that comes from the Almighty God, and together supported by the Sunnah, therefore, as a Khalifah in this earth, we should not give any excuse for not following the commands.

And remember, whatever we do in our daily lives, we should always do it for the seek of Allah… May God Bless you in every good thing you do in your life…Aaamiiin….

Thursday, March 5, 2009

ISLAMIC FASHION FESTIVAL (IFF): NEW FORMATION OF ISLAMIC WEDDING STYLE


The premier fashion festival for Muslim, Kuala Lumpur Islamic Fashion Festival (IFF) was held from November 24 to 27 at the J W Marriot Hotel in Kuala Lumpur.

The four days biggest fashion festival highlight on Muslim dress code from casual dress to Muslim bridal collection.

The event showcased 44 designers from five countries, including Malaysia. Among the Malaysia designers taking part in the festival are Bernard Chandran, Tom Abang Saufi, Melinda Looi, Micheal Ong, Khonn Hooi, Albert King and young fashion designers like Syahirah that came up with ‘ Aroosah’ theme for her bridal collections.

Among the interesting themes held were ‘Interpre-tations’, ‘Aroosah- Islamic Bridal’, ‘Enchanting Gamelan’, ‘Bolly-wood Flavour’, and 'Ethnic and Glamour'.

Islamic Bridal took part on the second day of the festival with new outlook and version of Islamic wedding styles.

For those who never neglect their appearances especially for special event, these various wedding dress could be one of their interests. What do you think about it?


Saturday, February 28, 2009

JEANS: TO WEAR OR NOT TO WEAR?



















Today, wherever we go, we can easily find there are so many Muslim women wearing tight jeans and shirt (but still wearing tudung). Such attire nowadays is no longer for men only. There are also many jeans designed for women as well. In other words, jeans are now becoming attire for both genders male as well as female. It makes me think… What is the Islamic perspective on wearing jeans, especially for Muslim women? Does religion allow Muslim women to wear jeans?





















I don’t think this is permitted! Muslim women should not wear tight jeans or any kind of revealing clothes. The body of Muslim women should not be revealed at all especially to her non-mahram. So, it can be concluded that Muslim women are not allowed to wear jeans since it (most of them) is tight and figure revealing to show the shape of the leg, which is wrong. Even if the jeans are not too tight, it still should not be worn by Muslim women because it seems like the women want to imitate the men in terms of their dressing style, which is cursed by the Prophet (PBUH).

However, there is another issue that arises. People question, how if a Muslim woman wears jeans under her jubbah where it won’t be visible to others especially the non-mahram? Is it permissible for her to wear jeans at home where it will be visible only to her mahram?

After doing a lot of reading, I found this answer …
(you can refer to: http://qa.muftisays.com/?Women+wearing+jeans)

In the Name of Allah the Exalted…

If the issue is about a Muslim woman who wants to wear jeans under her jubbah where it won’t be visible to others, then it is permissible. However, the following points must first be taken into consideration:

A general directive we learn from Hadith narrated from Hadhrat Ibn Abbas (R.A) is that: “Rasulullah cursed those men who are in the similitude (assume the manners) of women and those women who are in the similitude (assume the manners) of men". (Bukhari 7.773)

Jeans were originally worn by men and in later years became a fashion accessory for both males and females. Jeans are now not exclusively for the male gender. But they are from the clothes of fashion and have the ability to attract, this is against the dignity and self respect of a Muslimah. Furthermore certain tight fitting Jeans which cling to the body reveal the shape of the legs and still have the essence of male clothing. Hence, it would be Makruh for a Muslim lady to wear jeans under her jubbah when there is a risk of exposure. Jeans are only permissible to wear with the condition that they surely do not come into view to others.

With regard to question whether it is permissible for a Muslim woman to wear jeans at home where it will be visible only to her mahram, my own humble opinion is that she should not dress that way or expose herself in jeans etc to anyone including her mahram other than her husband.

Lastly, I would wish to quote in the words of Hadhrat Mufti Mahmood Hasan Gangohi Rahmatullahi Alaihi in which he says that it is Makruh (disliked in Islam) for a Muslim(both male and female) to don the attire of the Fussaaq (Evil doer, Transgressor) and Fujjaar (grave sinner). If jeans are the garments of the transgressors and evil doers then it is desirable that they be avoided. But alas this is to the discretion of the individual.

Ibn Uthamin also indicates towards such evil when he talks about the showing of leniency in the laws of Hijaab in which he states "that it will open the door of malevolence which will not be possible to close thereafter". (Fatawa Ulamaa Baladil Haram Pg 567).
Nevertheless, it is permissible for a lady to wear jeans under her jubbah etc as long as she exercises caution that no one can see her wearing them.

And Allah S.W.T. knows best…

Friday, February 27, 2009

HIJAB INCLUDES CONDUCT AND BEHAVIOUR AMONG OTHER THINGS

Besides the six criteria of dressing, complete hijab should also include moral conduct, behaviour, attitude and intention of the individual. A person only fulfilling the criteria of hijab of the clothes is observing hijab in a limited sense. Hijab of the clothes should be accompanied by hijab of the eyes, hijab of the heart, hijab of thought and hijab of intention. It also includes the way a person walks,talks, behaves, etc.

# Hijab prevents molestation #

The reason why Hijab is prescribed for women is mentioned in the Qur’an in the following verses of Surah Al-Ahzab: “O Prophet! Tell thy wives and daughters, and the believing women that they should cast their outer garments over their persons (when abroad); that is most convenient, that they should be known (as such) and not molested. And Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.”[Al-Qur’an 33:59]. From this verse, we can see that the Hijab has been prescribed for the women so that they are recognized as modest women and this will also prevent them from being molested. Therefore, Muslim women should always remind themselves that wearing hijab is not only fulfilling the criteria of hijab of the clothes, but it is more than that!

Thursday, February 26, 2009

SIX CRITERIA FOR MUSLIM DRESSING

According to Qur’an and Sunnah, there are basically six criteria for Muslim dressing. The first criterion is different for men and women, while the other remaining five criteria are the same for both gender men and women.

(1) The extent of the body that should be covered.

This is different for men and women. The extent of covering obligatory on the male is to cover the body at least from the navel to the knees. For women, the extent of covering obligatory is to cover the complete body except the face and the hands up to the wrist. However, if they choose to cover themselves further by means of a face veil and gloves, this is perfectly fine.

(2) The clothes worn should be loose and should not reveal the figure.

(3) The clothes worn shouldn't be transparent such that one can see through them.

(4) The clothes worn shouldn't be so glamorous as to attract the opposite sex.
With regards to this, colors and styles should be as plain as possible so that unnecessary attention is not drawn to the person. In addition, the clothing should not be excessively rich and fancy in order to gain admiration nor excessively poor and ragged in order to gain sympathy. Modesty is the main goal.

(5) The clothes worn should not resemble that of the opposite sex.

(6) The clothes worn should not resemble that of the unbelievers i.e. they should not wear clothes that are specifically identities or symbols of the unbelievers’ religions.
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Some other criteria on dressing with regards to Muslim women:

>> Jewelry must not be displayed, and it is especially important that it does not make noise as a woman walks (an ankle-bracelet with bells, for example). Women in pre-Islamic Arabia used to wear such bracelets and stamp their feet in the markets in order to entice and attract men.

>> Make-up (unless it is completely covered by a face-veil) and perfume are strictly prohibited for Muslim women when outdoors or in the presence of non-mahrem men.

>> A Muslim woman who wears hijab should also strive to make her actions consistent with her dress with regards to Islamic guidelines for speech, manners and behavior.
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To all Muslims, men as well as women... please make sure you dress properly according to the Islamic teachings... May Allah bless you...

Friday, February 20, 2009

JOB ATTIRE FOR MUSLIM WOMEN

Tension?

Don’t know how to dress for work?

Don’t worry...

Take a look at these for a while…



Stylish and fashionable but still cover the aurah!

In this modern life, you can easily find job attires for Muslim women designed by many clothes designers. With long and loose dresses together with variety styles of tudung/hijab, it will suit your appearance as a Muslim woman and make you feel more confident to go to the office.


For those interested in buying Muslim women’s job attire, you can visit these websites:

http://fizanstore.com/beborak/index.php?topic=165.0

Thursday, February 19, 2009

MAINTAIN COVERING AURAT PROPERLY!


To Muslim women, you don’t have to be sexy to attract guys coz the true one will accept you for who you are, and you should always believe what the God said in the Qur’an… “Good guys are meant for good women..”

Wednesday, February 18, 2009

BODY BECOMES SLIMMER, CLOTHES BECOME SHORTER

Besides the issue of not wearing hijab while going outside even though the person recites Quranic verses as well as performs prayers, there is another issue that I always think a lot, which is regarding the reason/s for Muslim women changing their image and personal appearance in terms of clothes when their physical look (especially their body) becomes slimmer than before.

In testimonials of slimming products, we can easily see such thing. Before, they are quite fat or obesity I could say, but later on after using the slimming product, not only their physical appearance change, but also in terms of their attire. From loose, long, and decent attire, it becomes shorter, smaller in size and tight whereby others can see the shape of their “new” body.

What makes them change their style of wearing cloth? It is because they actually really want to wear like that but before they can’t wear such clothes because there is a barrier due to the size of their body?

Let’s think, what actually lead them to use the slim product? If the reason is for the health since obesity is not good for one’s health, then why should they also change their appearance in terms of dressing?

Hmm… I don’t know… but whatever the reasons are, we should always come back to the Islamic teachings whereby in Islam, we should know that we should always perform ourselves today better than yesterday. There are three categories of people with regard to their everyday behavior:

1) Blessed (if today is better than yesterday)
2) Deceived (if today is just the same like yesterday)
3) Condemned (if today is worse than yesterday)

Now, let’s muhasabah ourselves…which category we are belong to? If the answer is the third one, then it indicates that the person might loss his/her sound mind for putting his/herself at the disdainful place.

People might say that they will never put themselves at such low-down place, but in the reality, they already placed themselves in it whether it is done consciously or not. It is not to say that they are bad women, but perhaps their faith is too weak to fight with their lust and the whisper from Satan. We shouldn’t easily blame our close friends for influencing us, because remember that there is no one who can change ourselves as well as our behavior and dressing style if we ourselves don’t want to do so!

Therefore, for those Muslim women…please maintaining covering your aurah properly and always try to put yourself in the blessed group of people…May God bless you…

RECITING QUR’AN, BUT NOT WEARING HIJAB OUTSIDE

Salam to all of you… sorry for not posting for quite long time… I’m too busy with so many assignments and examinations as well as presentation... And to release my tension doing all that things for continuously two weeks, I have read a magazine... (sorry, I can’t tell the name of the magazine) and it is about a celebrity with his wife who gave birth last month.. (For your information, the wife is free hair, not wearing hijab/tudung).

In the story, it mentions that the couple hopes that their baby boy will become a good man in the future. According to the celebrity, he and his wife always recite Quranic verses especially Surah Yaasin in Friday night, and put the baby just besides them so that the baby can also listen to what his parents recite…

From that story… I start to think…

To recite Quranic verses which is also including Surah Yaasin, a woman should cover her aurah properly whereby she should wear hijab to cover her hair and the head. Similarly, when a woman wants to perform prayer, she should well-covered herself before facing the God in the prayer. There is no situation whereby it is allowed for women to perform prayer without covering her aurah properly.

Then, I’m now wondering…

If a woman knows that she should not expose any part of her self while performing prayer because she is facing the God at that time, then what makes her feels not guilty for not wearing hijab outside in the public area? If facing the God, Who is the Creator, she has to cover herself properly, then why it is not being applied also to the life while facing and being around with so many people including those of opposite sex?

Is it the matter of hidayah? Those free hair people always say, when exclamation (hidayah) comes, they will wear hijab at that time. But do they know the date of their death? Exactly no! Then why they just easily say so? How if they die tomorrow or at the night at that day? Hidayah is totally out of our control. It is the God’s matter. Only the God can give hidayah to whoever He wants. And we should always remind ourselves that hidayah is something which people have to ask for, not just waiting without any effort to seek for it.

So, what are the other reasons for Muslim women for not wearing hijab outside while at the same time, they still reciting the Qur’an as well as performing prayers? Is it because they themselves don’t want to wear the hijab? Or is it they are forced to do so? If they are forced to do so, why don’t they fight for it? Isn’t the God’s commands should be given priority? Think about it!

Some people argue that it is not about how they dress up, but the most important thing is behavior. What is inside their heart will only known by the God. We always hear people say, “Don’t judge a book by its cover”. Do you agree with the statement? I personally don’t agree with it. For me, it is normal for us to judge something based on what we can see with our naked eyes. The truth is, rather than saying “Don’t judge a book by its cover”, the proper way to say it, is by saying, “Don’t judge a book ONLY by its cover”.

WALLAHU ‘ALAM…

Sunday, February 8, 2009

MUSLIM WOMAN WON THE GOLD MEDAL IN 200M SPRINT WHILE WEARING HIJAB

Beginning the race ...


During the race ...


Near the end ...


At the end ...


Thank God ...


Asean Games 2006 in Doha proved something to the world. It was a day of victory when a Muslim woman from Bahrain, Ruqaya Al-Ghasara won the well-deserved gold medal in 200m sprint while maintaining her Muslim’s attire complete with hijab.

Participating in the games, the Bahrain sprinter wore a traditional Muslim hijab (headscarf or tudung) featuring a Nike logo when she won the 200-meter event. It made people confuse and start questioning whether Nike provides the hijab because what people already knew is that Nike provides footwear and apparel to Bahraini athletes but does not include the hijab.

Responding to the issue, Nike spokesperson Brian Tacchini said, “I’m not sure if it’s something that she requested to have made, or if we offered it, but she chose to wear it”. On the other hand, BOF General Secretary Abdulrahman Askar said in a statement, “Al-Ghasara added the Nike logo as a sign of respect for the corporate sponsors of the Federation. As Nike does not make the hijab, Al-Ghasara took it upon herself to have her hijab embroidered with the Nike logo. There was no political or religious motivation”.

No matter what, it was the big won over other none wearing hijab sprinters. Even this was a three years ago story, but I think it is a good story to put in here, about the excellency of Muslim Women. Hail to Muslim Women who are wearing hijab! We are respecting you!



These were some of the news regarding on her success:


No bother at all: Bahrain sprinter Al Ghasara says Muslim dress only makes her faster http://www.iht.com/articles/ap/2006/12/11/sports/ME_SPT_ATH_Asian_Games_Muslim_Sprinter.php
Veil no bar to glory for Muslim women says Doha champion
http://www.rediff.com/sports/2006/dec/12veil.htm
Veil no barrier, says Al Ghasara
http://archive.gulfnews.com/indepth/doha2006/more_stories/10089009.html
Bahrainian sprinter Ruqaya Al Ghasara in first high-tech top
http://www.theaustralian.news.com.au/beijing_olympics/story/0,27313,24201257-5017489,00.html
Bahrain's Ruqaya Al Ghasara wins Asian Games 200, dedicates victory dedicated to all Muslim women
http://www.iht.com/articles/ap/2006/12/11/sports/ME_SPT_ATH_Asian_Games_Athletics.php
Muslim sprinter wins Olympic sprint dressed head to toe in hijab
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/worldnews/article-1046912/Muslim-sprinter-wins-Olympic-sprint-dressed-head-toe-hijab.html




Make a comparison:



JUST LOOK AT IT:

Al-Ghasara wore the Muslim woman attire and style. Still covering her aurat, she participated in the game in relax, but still speedy and won the game. Compared to the other sprinters with sexy and exposed attire, we can prove that Muslim Women dressing style is not a barrier toward speed type sport!

Friday, February 6, 2009

ATTIRE FOR MUSLIM WOMEN ATHLETES


It cannot be denied that sport is important and needed in our lives because it can make people healthy. When it is said that it benefits “people”, then it includes both genders; male as well as female.

However, Muslim women participation in sports always becomes an issue whereby people question the sports attire for Muslim women. Is there any proper attire can be worn by Muslim women when they involve in sports?

Islam allows women to compete in sports, but the condition is that they must follow the Muslim dress code to keep their aurat (parts of body that need to be covered). When Islam commands people to do things in such a way, it is believed that it is for the goodness of the ummah. The reasons why Islam encourages women to practice sport under certain rules are to preserve their dignity and honor, safeguard them against immoralities and indecency and also to preserve their chastity while preserving their right in practicing sports. Therefore, there is no barrier for Muslim women to involve in sports activities as long as they can still cover their aurat.

INVOLVEMENT OF MUSLIM WOMEN IN SPORT

The benefits derived from sport can not be denied. Not only do they have physical and social benefits, but also essential psychological consequences. Since sport is also a compulsory part of the curriculum in all schools, it is important to address the many Islamic conflicts that our sisters may face.

The Need for Sport

Men and women alike are in need of sport and exercise. Physical fitness is certainly encouraged, just as a balanced diet is endorsed, and harmful substances are prohibited. Exercise is also conducive to a more balanced emotional state, as it aids in the release of harmful free radicals and excess hormones. Mundane routines must also be broken otherwise it could affect a women's input into society, as well as her relationship with her husband and family.

The Sahaabah were aware of these issues, and would exhort others for the same. 'Ali bin Abi Talib (r.a.a) said: "Refresh your minds from time to time, for a tired mind becomes blind." Abu Darda` (r.a.a) also commented: "I entertain my heart with something trivial in order to make it stronger in the service of the Truth."

The Prophet (s.a.w) advised his followers to engage in many forms of sport, which even today are considered of the best form of exercise. The Prophet (s.a.w) himself would engage in wrestling, racing, archery and horse races.

While Aisha (r.a.a) was on a journey along with the Apostle of Allah (s.a.w), she had a race with him and outpaced him. As time passed, the Prophet (s.a.w) wished to avenge for his loss, so he raced her again, in which case he outpaced her, and remarked: "This is for that outpacing."

The Etiquette's of Sport

The restrictions on women participating in sport or physical activity are more than that of men. All Islamic observances must be followed, regardless of any school policies or social stigmas. Our obedience to our Creator cannot be given preference to a creature of Allah.

When participating in sports, the clothing must be Islamically acceptable. This would therefore exclude shorts, t-shirts, leotards, swimming costumes etc.

It is very important to ensure that there are no males watching. Mixing of sexes is forbidden in normal situations, except in special situations under certain conditions, let alone in a sporting arena or exercise facility. It also restricts your activities, and modesty would not allow this in any case.

Friday, January 30, 2009

THE DRESS OF A MUSLIMAH AMONG OTHER WOMEN

From a Lecture by Saalih as-Saalih
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Question:

Our Shaykh Muhammad ibn Uthaymeen, rahimahullaah, was asked that there is a phenomena with some women and it is them wearing short dresses and tight dresses which exposes their features and some dresses without sleeves exposing the chest and the back and appearing almost naked and that when we advice them they say that they don't put such clothes except in the presence of other woman. And that the 'awrah of the woman with the women is from the navel to the knee. So what is the ruling regarding this and what is the ruling regarding these types of clothes with wearing them in the presence of Mahrams? May Allaah subhaanahu wa Ta'ala reward you abundantly on the behalf of the Muslims and Muslimaat.
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Answer:


The answer for this is to say that it is authentically related from the Prophet (PBUH) to have said, 'Of the people of Hell there are two types whom I have never seen: The one possessing whips like the tail of an ox and they flog people with them. The second one the women who would be naked in spite of their being dressed, who are seduced to wrong paths and seduce others with their hair high like humps. These women would not get into Paradise and they would not perceive its odour, although its fragrance can be perceived from such and such distance.' [ Saheeh Muslim Volume 4, hadeeth number 6840].
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The people of knowledge interpreted the term "dressed but naked" as those women who put on tight clothes or light clothes which does not shield what is underneath or short clothes. And Shaykh al-Islaam ibn Taymiyyah, rahimahullaah, mentioned that the dress of woman in their homes at the time of the Prophet (PBUH) was from the ankle (--) up all the way to the palm. All of this covered while in their homes. And that when they leave to the market it is known that the women of the Companions used to put on dresses that flow over their ends dragging on the earth and the Prophet (PBUH) made it permissible for them to lower or to make permissible for the lower end to extend to an arm span, not to exceed that. However as to what became unclear to some woman from the saying of the Prophet (PBUH) a woman should not look to the 'awrah of another woman nor man to look the 'awrah of men. And their understanding that the 'awrah of a respected woman is the part between her navel and her knees. So they understood from this that this hadeeth indicates that it is ok to have short to wear or put on short clothes.
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However, this misunderstanding is refuted by the fact that the Prophet Muhammad did not say 'the dress of a woman is between the navel and the knee'. However, he said "the woman should not look to the private parts of the woman, the 'awrah of the women". He forbade the one who looks. Why? Because the one who puts on flowing over clothes sometimes may uncover her private parts or for any other reason. So the Prophet forbade the woman looks at the 'awrah of the other woman. Do you understand the difference between the two? The Prophet (PBUH) did not say that 'the dress of a woman is between the navel and the knee'.
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And when the Prophet said: 'The man should not look to the other man's private parts" so did the Companions, wear 'izaar, the waist-garment, from navel to knee? Or did they put on pants from the navel to the knee? And is it now sound for a woman to go out and meet other women having on her nothing except that which shields from the area from the navel to the knee? No one says this. And this is not the case except with the woman of the kaafirs, the kaafir woman.
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So this is the thing which was understood by some women from this hadeeth, is incorrect. And the hadeeth's meaning is obvious and appearant. If the Prophet (PBUH) did not say that the dress of the woman should be between her navel and her knee so the woman should fear Allaah, subhaanahu wa Ta'ala, and should assume shyness and bashfulness which is from the characteristic of the woman and this is from faith, as the Prophet said, 'Bashfulness is a branch of faith.' Similarly also we know the parable which says, 'More bashful than a woman kept in her private quarter'. This is a parable because of the shyness that the woman should assume. And we did not know, not even concerning the woman in the pre-Islamic era, the woman of jaahiliyyah, that they used to shield that which is between the navel and the knee only. This was not the case with the women nor it was the case with the men. So do these women then, do they want that the Muslim Woman be in a worse situation than the woman of jaahiliyyah?
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In summary, the dress is something and looking at the 'awrah is something else. The dress of a woman when she is with another woman, the legal dress is to cover that which between the palms and to the ankles. This is the legal. However, if the woman needs to tuck up her dress because of work or something else then she may tuck it all the way to the knee. And similarly if she needs to tuck up the sleeves, if she needs to tuck up the sleeves all the way to the shoulder then she may do so as it is a need, whenever there's a need. However, to have this to be the normal dress which she puts on, then no. And the hadeeth does not indicate this under any circumstances. And that's why if the address was to the one looking, not to the one being looked at. And the Prophet (PBUH) did not mention anything about the dress. And he did not say that 'the dress of the woman is between the navel and the knee'. So that's what keeps women from having this kind of misunderstanding.
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With respect to their mahrams, then the same in terms of looking, like the looking of a woman to a woman. Meaning: that it is permissible for the woman to uncover in the presence of her mahrams that which she uncovers in the presence of other women. She may uncover the head, the neck, the feet, the hands, the arm and the shin. But she should not make her dress short.
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This is a quick drawing over on the answer of our Shaykh, rahimahullaah, concerning this question which often comes or is often presented by many of our sisters. So I ask Allaah, subhaanahu wa Ta'ala, to make it a benefit for them and for all of us.